It’s simple. Try new things.
Now, exactly how many times have you heard these words? Whether it’s from your parents, your friends, or me, a complete stranger. Well, there is a good reason we keep repeating the same ole phrase: Because it works!
If you want to add some humor to your life, go out and do something different. I don’t mean go to McDonald’s and try that Mac Snack Wrap that a buddy of yours dares you to eat. You need to find something that gets you out of your comfort zone and just jump right into it.
I was not fully open to this idea when I first heard of it, but honestly, what could it hurt? Sitting in my 12th grade band class, I was moving through the motions when my teacher, Mr. Lloyd, grabbed our attention with an odd request. He began by subtly discussing the rituals of an African culture, which he had been observing over the past year. However, things took a turn when he asked the students to participate in an African tribal dance that would be performed and judged in front of a live audience.
My first thought: “Oh, Hell no!” I gazed around the classroom to see which friends of mine had the same reaction. To no surprise, not one of us raised our hands. I looked at Mr. Lloyd and saw the disappointment stream across his face. Then, the guilt set in.
I have always been the kind of person who tries to provide others with happiness, helping them any way I can. By seeing my teacher’s face all glum and upset, I knew I was failing at this life pledge.
Suddenly, I noticed that everyone in the class had their eyes set on me. Wondering what this could possibly be about, I realized that my hand was in the air, volunteering myself for the African tribal dance.
Over the next week, Mr. Lloyd held 30-minute teaching sessions designated to our upcoming performance. While he managed to talk a few other students into participating, I was still the only one who voluntarily agreed. To the beat of several drums, we hopped, spun, and threw our arms about, perfecting every move of this physical dance.
The performance came and went faster than I’d ever expected. Instead of heaving laughter projecting from the audience, there was nothing but applause and recognition
In the beginning, I did not find one aspect of humor in this entire situation. But after 3 years, reflecting back on this journey, I see it.
When I tell this story, there are three words that draw my audience in: African tribal dance. It isn’t the words themselves that create the laughter; it’s the connection of the activity with me. At the time, I was a heavy-set individual, which alone makes some people laugh. Just look at Chris Farley, Ralphie May, and Gabriel Iglesias. All of these comedians draw some comedy from their physical appearance. So, seeing me dancing and flaying my arms around while wearing an African robe-like outfit apparently causes hilarity to ensue.
Next time you wonder how to add some comedic spice to your life, I suggest trying to find your African tribal dance.
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